Jimmy Henderson
Hons (phil) MA (psychology ) FRC
‘Mind is consciousness which
has put on limitations. You are originally unlimited and perfect. Later you
take on limitations and become the mind’.
Ramana Maharshi (Indian philosopher)
Ramana Maharshi (Indian philosopher)
The power of our mind is such that it is
believed that our thoughts can even attract favourable or unfavourable life-experiences
and circumstances into our lives. This idea is often been given a mystical or
magical tone in many spiritual publications. However, it is also well-known and
explained in psychological terms as the ‘self-fulfilling prophecy’, a
phenomenon which suggests that one’s central beliefs (especially about oneself), can result in attitudes
and behaviour which affect decision-making and outcomes, even drawing one to those
things one desperately seeks to avoid.
As an example, let us consider
the example of a young man with a childhood history of humiliation, someone who
has entered adulthood with major social insecurities. As a result, this young
man, in all likelihood, entertains ideas such as ‘I am not popular’ and ‘I never
get invited to parties’. The problem is that these beliefs eventually filter
into his unconscious and become like written ‘scripts’ for his future social
behavior. In other words, as a result of these thoughts, he presents or
projects a total lack of self-confidence and an unwillingness to participate in
social activities. This is reflected in his non-verbal communications
(body-language), his actions and his social behavior, which are, in turn,
noticed by his peers (especially women), and they simply disassociate from him,
and he is no longer invited to social events. This only further reinforces his
deeply-held belief that he is unpopular and causes him to withdraw further. The
negative content of his beliefs about himself has now become a self-fulfilling-prophecy.
Fortunately, these same processes
also form the basis of ‘positive thinking’ and the laws of manifestation, and it
is therefore often said that the individual merely has to ‘reprogram’ himself
(or herself) (change those underlying self-beliefs ), in order to achieve success.
However, it is probably a little more complicated than that, and the role of one’s
consciousness, intent and actions, as well as energy-based influences, on
desired outcomes cannot be discounted, and this is discussed later.
‘When an inner situation is not made
conscious, it appears outside as fate.’
Carl Jung
To further show the importance of the mind and thinking in everyday
life, psychological research has even linked powerful negative mental states to
a class of (psychosomatic) illnesses in the body (usually relating to hypertension,
anxiety and stress). Some alternative diagnostic methods even suggest that specific
illnesses can be linked to certain states of mind. For instance, holistic
practitioners believe that someone with a staid disposition who shoulders high levels
of responsibility (metaphorically ‘carrying the weight of the world on his or
her shoulders’), could display spinal issues.
Likewise, someone who, as the result of unpleasant past experiences, is
simply (metaphorically) ‘unable to digest life’, could present stomach
ailments. However, this is not, as yet, medically proven.
What is, however, clear, is that dealing
with troubling issues from the past and being able to maintain a clear and
focused mind, is important for conscious and healthy living. And, if deemed necessary,
one should not hesitate to seek additional help in the form of counseling.
Jimmy Henderson is a philosopher, metaphysican and cognitive specialist who integrates science, psychology, philopsophy, metaphysics and spirituality into a co-ordinated whole. His books and e-books can be found on Amazon.com and through his website www.jimmyhendersonbooks.com
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