Stages of counselling process
: (Outcomes based)
Stage 1. Building a relationship
Skills required:
Focus (non-verbal communication)
Attending (reflection and listening)
Empathy (body language, voice and words)
Unconditional positive regard.
Outcome required ......relationship of Trust
Stage 2. Dealing with emotions
Skills required:
Listening /reflection (Acknowledge feelings)
Questioning
(Identify, name and take ownership of emotions)
Silence
Support (physical)
Outcome required ……...a visible release of emotion
Stage 3. Dealing with thoughts
Skills required:
Listening (acknowledge and clarify thoughts)
Questioning (Identification of underlying thoughts)
Challenging (negative self -talk and other cases)
Analysing (looking for the big picture or underlying issues.
Outcome required................a good understanding of his /her
situation (turning point)
Stage 4.
Empowerment
Immediacy
Positive feedback
Meeting their specific needs
New coping skills
Outcome required ……..client
feels empowered to make decisions and continue
Stage 5 Options and planning :
Skills required :
Frame of reference (clients real life options)
Linking
Summarising ( looking at the real issues involved)
Analysing ( present, past and
future possibilities)
Outcome required - a realistic, workable plan of action
Total outcome of counselling session .... An overall visible improvement
in the clients emotional and mental state (improved mood) The willingness to
continue (no doubts or possible unresolved
emotions or issues)
Jimmy Henderson (MA Psychology) trained trauma and crisis counsellor
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