BY Jimmy Henderson (Hons (phil) MA (psychology) FRC
‘Mind is consciousness which
has put on limitations. You are originally unlimited and perfect. Later you
take on limitations and become the mind’.
Ramana Maharshi (Indian philosopher)
Ramana Maharshi (Indian philosopher)
The power of our mind is such that it is
believed that our thoughts can even attract favourable or unfavourable life-experiences
and circumstances into our lives. This idea is often been given a mystical or
magical tone in many spiritual publications. However, it is also well-known and
explained in psychological terms as the ‘self-fulfilling prophecy’, a
phenomenon which suggests that one’s central beliefs (especially about oneself), can result in attitudes
and behaviour which affect decision-making and outcomes, even drawing one to those
things one desperately seeks to avoid.
As an example, let us consider
the example of a young man with a childhood history of humiliation, someone who
has entered adulthood with major social insecurities. As a result, this young
man, in all likelihood, entertains ideas such as ‘I am not popular’ and ‘I
never get invited to parties’. The problem is that these beliefs eventually filter
into his unconscious and become like written ‘scripts’ for his future social
behavior. In other words, as a result of these thoughts, he presents or projects
a total lack of self-confidence and an unwillingness to participate in social
activities. This is reflected in his non-verbal communications (body-language),
his actions and his social behavior, which are, in turn, noticed by his peers
(especially women), and they simply disassociate from him, and he is no longer invited
to social events. This only further reinforces his deeply-held belief that he
is unpopular and causes him to withdraw further. The negative content of his
beliefs about himself has now become a self-fulfilling-prophecy.
Fortunately, these same processes
also form the basis of ‘positive thinking’ and the laws of manifestation, and it
is therefore often said that the individual merely has to ‘reprogram’ himself
(or herself) (change those underlying self-beliefs ), in order to achieve success.
Jimmy Henderson a well-known metaphysician and regular radio
talk-show guest. He is the author of many articles as well as two self-help
books titled ‘Multi-Dimensional Thinking’ and ‘Multi-Dimensional Perception’
which are available at Exclusive Books, Amazon.com and Kalahari.com. You are welcome to visit his website at www.jimmyhendersonbooks.com
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